Friday, November 5, 2010

The Oregon Trail...

Since my kids are so far apart in age (17, 9 and 3), we've found unit studies to be the best way to educate all of them at once.  At first I was a little wary of my 17yr old doing crafts or my 9yr old doing tedious time lines and research but it has all worked out so well!  Since the point of school is to LEARN, we'll take that knowledge any way we can get it and the funner, the better!
Just imagine seeing this from your covered wagon!!
Our first unit study of the year was on the Oregon Trail.  I bought the Oregon Trail video game and that became a favorite teacher of just how many "hiccups" you could run into on the trail!  The first thing I learned is to not use your own kids' names members of your party!  It's kinda disturbing when the computer tells you that your baby just died!  Yikes!
Along the way we made a playdough model of the trail so we could get somewhat of a physical sense of rivers, mountains and plains.  We also made hard tack, miniature covered wagons and took two field trips.  We were able to walk parts of the Oregon Trail and see the ruts as well as a grave for a wagon master!  Can you imagine losing your wagon master??  While walking a bit of the trail in the woods you really got a sense of how courageous the emigrants really were!  Out there in the woods could be all manner of animal ready to eat them for a snack and I think I would begin to doubt that anyone knew where they were going!  How quiet and eerie and yet beautiful!  What adventurous souls must've traversed such unforgiving and untamed land in search of something better for their families and as a consequence, created something better for us all!  It was a humbling and awe inspiring experience.
Live oxen at the Oregon Trail Museum in Baker City
We also read books depicting life on the Trail... we did anything to make it real.  Making it real is what allows for learning.
One field trip was to the Oregon Trail Museum and Interpretive Center in Baker City.  There were a lot of hands on displays for the kids and visual displays that were interactive as well.  We were fortunate enough to visit on the day that there were live oxen on display!  These oxen weighed more than 3,000lbs and were about 6ft tall at their back!  They were amazing to look at.  One has to have a good deal of respect for an animal of that size... and a back-up plan or two!!
max painting his covered wagon... and apparently his nose as well... and his hand... and arm...

making hardtack... or beating your brother with a rolling pin... whichever works!
Here are a few pictures of projects that we did.  If you've never done a unit study before, try the book, "Unit Studies Made Easy" by Valerie Bendt to gather ideas and inspiration.  Basically, we pick a subject and find books, art projects, field trips, movies, games, whatever... anything that will help the kids learn about that particular area of study.  We love it!  It really is great fun!

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

I Believe...

  • I believe that I can do it all
  • I believe that school is where my children share germs with others, are socially ridiculed and learn bad manners
  • I believe that even though I can do it all, I should have help
  • I believe I should spend time every day exercising
  • I believe I should nap every day... naps are a gift from God
  • I believe that everyone should have at least four children
  • I believe that families should live near each other but everyone should live in the one place that their soul feels at rest
  • I believe I should be joyful all the time
  • I believe I am forgiven so others deserve my forgiveness as well
  • I believe in baking cookies with my kids
  • I believe in smiling even when the world is falling apart
  • I believe medication is a necessary evil
  • I believe laundry belongs in drawers not in piles on the couch... like mine often is
  • I believe beds should be made every day and sheets should always be crisp, clean and lovely smelling
  • I believe everyone should have one friend that they can call on who will always be there
  • I believe that bathrooms should always be meticulously clean... even tho mine rarely is
  • I believe in family dinners around the table
  • I believe in getting up before the children so I can experience the peace of early morning
  • I believe in bettering myself
  • I believe children should be read to by their Daddy every evening
  • I believe children should be bathed every night before crawling into their crisp, clean and lovely smelling sheets
  • I believe Daddy should pray with all of his children before bed every night
  • I believe my house should be clean but not at the sacrifice of my children, family fun time, normal family living or my sanity
  • I believe that parents set the tone for the holidays... either we're stressed or excited
  • I believe traditions are an amazing gift that we give to our children
  • I believe that parents should leave their children a family home that is filled with amazing memories... not expensive "stuff"
  • I believe grandchildren are going to be amazing
  • I believe in dates with my husband
  • I believe that people connect over a strong cup of coffee
  • I KNOW that life is short
  • I KNOW that God loves me and cares about the success and happiness of my family and me
  • I believe that as long as I exercise a little every day, eat healthy and drink plenty of water, it doesn't matter what size my jeans are
  • I believe in taking care of myself, body, mind and spirit so that I can live a fulfilled life
  • I believe in learning something new every day
  • I believe aprons are pretty as well as functional
  • I believe in seeing the beauty around me... and trying to capture it with my camera to share with others
  • I believe that one can never have enough beer, chocolate, tortilla chips and kitchen towels
  • I believe my children are the personification of what is the best of me and the worst of me
  • I believe everyone should have fluffy pajamas and new socks
  • I believe in adopting others into my family
  • I believe my husband has potential :-D
  • I believe that I should not be afraid of people
  • I believe that mamas should craft with their children at least once a week
  • I believe that homeschooling is an amazing way to build a family
  • I believe the most important thing you can teach your children is to have a heart full of service and compassion for others
  • I believe the length of my hair and how distressed my jeans are is a representative of my personality, not my age
  • I believe the man should arrange for, ask for an dpay for the date
  • I believe that wearing granny panties, makes you granny panties
  • I believe I am a work in progress until the day I die
  • I KNOW I want it all
  • I believe that parents are and always will be the greatest influence on their children
  • I believe that people need someone to listen to them more than they need someone to listen to
  • I believe God has great plans for me... not mediocre ones

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Life Update



Everything has happened so fast I figure I should start with an update...We purchased a home in town in May of this year.  It's a small farmhouse style home with three bedrooms and only a single bathroom!  We moved in shortly after June 1st after we refinished the floors and painted and did other small repairs.  The house is within walking distance to the library, the park, the store and the ice cream shop!  The back yard is large and fenced which is a relief to me.  It's such a cozy little spot and I truly love it.  This is a picture of our dining room.  We do most of our homeschooling in this room.  It's comfortable and feels very homey to me.
In July I surprised everyone (again) by going into labor on my own and having my baby quickly... something I have never done!  i was only in labor for a total of seven hours and was only in the hospital for about 4 1/2 before our baby bo arrived!
Joseph Boaz
Joseph Boaz was born six days early on July 16th shortly after 9am.  He was 8 pounds, 5 ounces and 21 inches long.  He did great from the start and is continuing to grow in leaps and bounds.  At two months he had already gained about five and a half pounds and grown four inches!  He's happy and smiley and he fits in really well with the rest of the rowdies that live here!
I am homeschooling all of the children full time this year and, I have to say, for my family this is the only way to go!  Mine and Mitchell's relationship has really grown and God provided us with a schedule that has been beneficial to us all.  We are really involved with other families doing co-ops and we're involved with the local homeschool group, too.  Janie sees a friend once a week to learn Spanish and my friend Jackie teaches her Geology while I do a craft and playdate with her kids.  Tomorrow my friend Jenni starts a cooking class that my kids will attend.  There are once a week field trips with the homeschool group and we're trying to wrap up our second unit study of the year!
The trial for my friend Lisa's murder will be held this month... 14 months after her death.  Jury selection starts next week and trial is scheduled for November 15-19th.  We'll see if it happens in that time frame.  It would be good to put this part of the trauma behind us so I'm praying that everything will happen swiftly.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Happy Birthday!

So, today is our Lisa's birthday!  We called an impromptu holiday and everyone stayed home.  Lisa had a bicycle that she loved to ride and she loved to walk or run on the beach.  This morning the kids went for a bike ride then we came home to watch The Sound of Music... her all-time favorite show with a bowl full of popcorn.  Mitchell has been working all day to make some sort of sculpture out of play dough in her honor. :)  I baked an apple pie.  I admit that I don't know her favorite choice for dessert but I know she liked apple pie so that's what I've done.  It turned out great and we ate it for dinner!  She had a magnet on her fridge saying something about pie actually being fruit so it seemed appropriate for tonight! :)
It is a family tradition to have a "singing candle" for every birthday.  On her last birthday I gave her one of her own since her ex-husband seemed to have gotten the other one in the divorce!
It was a challenge to keep our chin up today but she loved her birthday so much that being sad today, of all days just wasn't an option.  We miss her so but are so grateful for the love that she gave to us while she was with us.  We have so many great memories of birthday's past that they have definitely sustained us today!  Making it special for her was the best part.  The line she put under her photo on Facebook is now widely used among her friends and reads like this: live, laugh, love, life is too short for anything less.
Make it a great day!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Living the Life... Again!

What a long journey I've been on these past few months!  To say they've been trying would be an understatement!  Life is for living, tho, and so here I am putting my effort forward on the things that matter most to me.
I am 19 weeks pregnant now and morning sickness is finally over!  Everyone says our baby is most certainly a girl with all of the nausea I've had this time around.  We are hoping so but will not find out for sure until the doctor schedules an ultrasound.  I'm guessing we still have a couple of weeks before we do that.
                  Joe, working hard :)

Joseph is working out of town now.  He leaves on Sunday and returns on Thursday to spend the weekend with us.  We miss him but I like this schedule much better than "compressed halves"  where he works for 8 days and then is home for seven.  Hopefully his gang will move closer to home soon so our family schedule will be more normal and our expenses will be lighter.
Janie is such a blessing to me!  Where would I be without her?  She has been there helping out when I'm exhausted or sick to help with Max and housework and still manages to work on her schooling.  She attends afternoon classes at the high school and is a "straight A" student there.  Her artwork is improving and she is making a head and foot board for a bed in metal shop.  She finds that her favorite medium is chalk.  She takes a very hands on but short computer class and then spends time one-on-one with her computer lab teacher.
Mitchell started second grade full time last month.  It was a really difficult and painful decision but he is glad to be so occupied during the day.  It has taught me a lot.  We are working on his behavior now from a different angle.  Mitchell seems to require lots of attention... this we've known for a long time... and he will get it any way that he can.  I find that I need to "beat him to the punch", so to speak, and give him the opportunity to receive positive attention before he creates havoc and only gets negative attention.  Negative attention is exhausting for all of us!  We started with chores and small expectations.  Since he normally throws a fit about doing his chores, I've given him a daily deadline to complete them and if he completes them by this deadline for two days then he gets some special time with just me.  He finished his first two days today and we went to the library together.  I'm hoping that the extra attention and the reward for good behavior vs. consequences for poor behavior will make a difference for him and for our relationship.  I'll keep you posted on our progress.
Max is becoming a potty-trained little boy!  Hooray!  I always fuss about potty-training with every child only to realize in the end that they will train themselves when they are ready.  As long as he's wearing underwear instead of a diaper he will ask to use the bathroom almost every time.  He's such a cutie and a huge blessing to me.  I am really grateful for his loving and snuggly self on days when life gets hard.  His new thing is to pat his belly and say, "See my baby?"  Crazy boy! :)
All in all, life is getting back on track.  We are grateful for Spring and that it reminds us that life is full of new beginnings and there is hope in that.  Hoping for you and yours that your Spring brings the opportunity for your own budding and blooming and reminds you of the only hope that is everlasting... the hope that comes from God.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Brrr....

I'm ready for the snow.  Snow means it should warm up a little!  This morning when Joe left for work it was -3!  Janie went out to defrost the chickens' water and twenty minutes later it was frozen again.  I worked in the hen house this morning spreading a new bail of straw and defrosting the water more thoroughly.  Some of the hens even had frost on their feathers.  I felt so bad for them that i locked them all back in their house to dig through the fresh straw--a favorite pasttime of theirs--and, hopefully, stay warmer.  Back in my toasty house I'm thinking of something cozy to make for dinner and maybe some gingerbread men.  I'll add the new recipes to the blog today.  We're praying for Joe who has to work outside all day.  I'll have to have a hot cup of tea waiting for him when he gets home.  Hoping you stay warm wherever you are today!

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Our Thanksgiving

Well, I've been meaning to update you on the Thanksgiving festivities at our house.  Unfortunately I came down with morning sickness that weekend and, due to many late nights, a good case of exhaustion so I haven't taken the time to sit down and write.
Jackie came out the week before and sat down and got me organized.  She forced me to allow others to do some work, too and listed all of the dishes I could prepare in advance.  It wound up being my saving grace in all of this.  She also loaned me a card table and five chairs which worked out great to put in the family room.  With 21 diners in all even my 90 inch table couldn't hold everyone!
Well, everyone arrived late Wednesday and came out to the house.  Most people ate but since it was after 8pm some had already had dinner on the road.  Only one family cancelled at the last minute but we had an addition of two more so it all worked out well.
I failed to take very many pictures... I think I was too busy talking but I did take a few..
This is a picture of Makaily on Thanksgiving morning.  She and her dad and I went out to take care of the chickens.  We were all still in our jammies and Makaily donned my pink plaid rubber boots and barn coat.  She looked so cute and was definitely very serious about her job.  Her dad dropped the bucket of scraps while 'Kaily and I went in search of eggs.  Luckily we found two!  She also found this barred rock who didn't mind being pet first thing in the morning!  Talk about unusual!  She turned around and gave 'Kaily a look but didn't shy away from the lovin'.
I took most of Thanksgiving morning off and let Joe and the others take over the kitchen.  After all, thanks to Jackie's plan of attack, most of my work was done for the day!  I was in total heaven with all of my family around.  Twelve kids and nine adults roaming (and sometimes running) around the house and the yard!  We gave thanks and all ate an amazing dinner of turkey, homemade stuffing, cranberries and cranberry salad, mashed potatoes and homemade rolls, gravy, pumpkin and apple pies, green bean casserole and sweet potatoes with marshmallows.  It was really great and a lot of fun.
This is a picture of a table we set up by the fireplace.  Jackie made the centerpiece and it looked so beautiful in the middle of the table.  I added some pumpkins from our garden, candles, silk fall leaves and grapevine pumpkins.  Pretty nice for the kids' table!
We finished the evening with a kettle fire outside.  I wish I'd have gotten a picture of that for our landlords but I just got so wrapped up in enjoying everyone that I forgot.  I was sitting at the fire and passing out marshmallows to the kids and just absorbed the moment.  It was dark out and there were kids swinging on the rope swing.  Some other kids were playing flashlight tag and some of us were around the fire.  About four or five guys got in the hot tub and they each took their littlest kids in with them.  Some people were inside playing video games.  I wish every day could end that way!
When we came inside, Uncle Jim got out his dremel so everyone could carve their names and ages in the table leaf.  Everyone wrote their name with Sharpie marker first and then Donna Marie went over it all with the dremel.  I sent a picture to my Mom.  I know she would've rather seen the table unmarred but I told her it was my forever table and that it was going to tell a story.  I think it turned out perfectly and I'm so happy with it!
I passed out the Christmas catalogs from Penney's and a Sharpie for each kid to mark what they wanted from Santa this year.  I told the parents that I was promoting commercialism among their children. :)  The kids loved them, of course!
The next morning everyone had to leave for one reason or another so we fed them all breakfast and off they went.  Most of them encountered a little snowfall on the mountain and I think that was probably the perfect end to the weekend.
Family is the most important thing in my life.  I do miss them all but am grateful to be able to live in the most beautiful bit of country on God's green earth!
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